Thoughts Without Words

Thinker monkeyI recently received an email from a friend asking if I would have difficulty communicating with an animal in another country who was used to hearing a different language spoken. While I knew immediately that wouldn’t be a problem, I understood the basis for the question, which then inspired this post. I realized that maybe a little explanation might be of general benefit.

So let’s break it down. We humans are completely enamored with words. I am tempted to say that we are hypnotized by them. We are so accustomed to putting words to our thoughts, and are taught to do so at such a young age, that it’s sometimes difficult for us to even imagine, much less believe, that thought actually exists independently of words.  The old (and irritating) phrase “dumb animals” refers to the lack of words, but also clearly implies the lack of thought, even though nothing could be farther from the truth.

Thought is an aspect of consciousness — ALL consciousness — that does not require words. Thought travels very, very quickly.  Humans, on average, think about 50,000 thoughts a day.  That averages out to about 35 thoughts every single minute of every hour, waking and sleeping. We are unaware of most of these thoughts. The few we are able to “catch” are those that we focus on and slow down enough to put into words.

There are a great many “channels” of thought other than words. Humans often, with varying degrees of accuracy, lump thought that does not involve words under the headings of either “intuition” or “instinct.”

These channels can include:
Feelings/emotions
Images/pictures
Physical sensations
Smells (Yes, really. This is a big one for your dog or cat.)
Sounds/noises/music, etc. (a.k.a. the “audio” channel — which can include words, but encompasses so much more)
Knowing

Every animal on this planet (yes, YOU are an animal on this planet) has the ability to receive and exchange thoughts without words.

Sometimes we receive thoughts instantaneously in large blocks of pure, unfiltered, wordless information that may take a long time — hours, days, months, even years –to fully understand, process, and then translate into appropriately nuanced words. In “new age” terms this is often referred to as a “download.” Creative writers may call it “inspiration” — that light-bulb idea that comes in a flash and is actually worked out, understood, and expressed through the process of writing.  Visual artists are often able to translate the information directly into images, bypassing words completely.  Remember that saying about an image being worth 1,000 words?

The process of translating and expressing thoughts with words is a specific element of what we humans call the “art of communication.” We even use words in our own minds to communicate with ourselves. We assign words as we organize our many thoughts, and choose which ones to give our attention to.

In communicating with other animals we have to be willing to let go of words in order to focus instead on the essential thought — the information that is behind the words.   Animals, having no words to let go of, are much better than we humans at this type of communication, and are usually able to pick up on the feelings and images that we transmit to them with relative ease.   But we can make it even easier for them to understand us by remembering that our words are just symbols and placing our attention on the images and feelings that convey the underlying meaning of our words.  For example, if you tell your dog that you’re going to the park, picture the park, perhaps visualizing you and your dog playing there together. Feel a sense of fun and eagerness about the experience.   The more you are able to allow the images and feelings that are represented by your words to flow close to the surface of your mind as you speak, the easier it will be for your animals to understand you. Your very awareness of the process will make it that much more effective.

With practice, this awareness will expand so that it will become easier for you to recognize and decipher the wordless thoughts, images, and feelings that your animals transmit to you all the time — usually without you even realizing it.

Of course, at this point, you will naturally tend to translate their communications to you into words, because that is, after all, how we humans make sense of such things.  It’s possible to do this so quickly and automatically that it can seem as though you are actually hearing the words spoken in your head, but that’s really what I call our “inner translation system” and not the actual mechanism of the communication.  The animal isn’t speaking the words to you, you are supplying the words to match the animal’s thought.

So, don’t worry if you meet a dog or cat that is accustomed to hearing French or Hungarian or Japanese rather than English.  You can still communicate just fine.  Human language is never a barrier to communication when thought is transmitted without words.

Some “Golden” Words

Golden-Retriever-Smile-600x450Sometimes life doesn’t quite go as planned. (I know I’m not the only one to have noticed that.)  It’s always been my intention to offer “tips and techniques” for communicating with animals on this blog. I just didn’t know I was going to begin it now.  I also had a vague idea that when the time was right I would begin in an orderly fashion — you know, start at the beginning and progress neatly, step by step, through the process. Oh well — it’s a blog, after all, not a manual. There’s nothing like leaping right into the middle.  So, while the post I had intended to write several weeks ago on cats as energy/dream workers is still percolating, something else is pushing itself forward — just like something a wise dog told me a long time ago.

I had contacted this wonderful dog, an elderly golden retriever, on behalf of a human client, but we — the dog and I — were enjoying each other so much that toward the end of our conversation the dog asked if she could contact me again. I was flattered but uncertain, so I said “I don’t know if I’ll be aware of you trying to contact me.” I was still very new at this work, and it’s not like she could just ring me on her cell phone.

This smart, experienced dog told me “If I just pop into your head while you’re not thinking about me, that probably means I want to talk to you.”

This is one of the best lessons, and some of the most useful advice I’ve ever received on the subject of animal communication. So a tip to keep in mind when you’re working, playing, traveling, or otherwise occupied, and your beloved animal companion just pops into your head for no reason — know they’re thinking about you and would like some interaction.  If you are able to, take a moment and just feel the love in that thought of your animal companion. Allow your love for them to rise up expansively — just let it fill you in that moment. Then send it out to them. Sending is so much easier than you might think. It only takes the clear intention to do so.  Just give that love a little “push” in their direction.  If you like you can visualize it as a sparkly cloud or bubble, a beam of light (my favorite visualization), or a shower of sparkles, or see yourself covering them with a warm blanket, caressing their fur, tossing a toy, handing them a treat, or anything that works for you as a way of expressing your love. Sometimes it’s fun to let an appropriate visualization come spontaneously, without a lot of conscious thought, in response to whatever you intuitively sense the animal might be seeking from you. You can even add words, if you wish, like “You’re such a good dog,” or simply “I love you.” Just send it out and wait a moment.  Allow yourself to be open and feel anything that may come back to you. In all likelihood it will be something like a burst of joy, a deepening of that love, or a feeling of the animal’s presence as though they were there with you and loving you as they always do. You can do this anytime from anywhere as a way of quickly tuning into your animal friend’s energy, and sharing a loving moment with them.

I hope you try it. I’d love to hear about how it feels to you, or about any experiences you might have with this or similar techniques. I’ll answer questions in the comments if I can.